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Let me cut to the chase: Most guys these days are getting their butts KICKED by attractive women.

Like, really kicked.

And I'm not just talking about guys that remind you of Beavis and Butthead. I'm talking even about guys that seem to have a LOT going for them.

So what is going on?

I'll tell you what's going on:

1. MOST guys in our society are willing to TOLERATE EXTRAORDINARY disrespect from women.

2. MOST guys are giving women the MESSAGE that they feel INFERIOR in general, and especially inferior to women.

3. Women are human beings, and as such, it is only HUMAN to start to believe that you really are *SPECIAL* if everyone around you treats you as if you are. And if you believe you are *special*, then you believe a double standard is only natural and fair.
This is why teasing a woman on something about her is often an effective way to start off. If you see a woman in a supermarket, and she’s selecting vegetables or chicken or whatever, you can easily tease her that if she does dishes AND cooks, she might have a chance with you.

But remember, it’s not just the TEASE. It’s the ATTITUDE you are conveying.

It must be conveyed in EVERYTHING you are doing- your voice, your words, your body language. Are you RUSHING your words as if you want to get out of there? That doesn’t show a guy who LEADS, does it? That would just show a guy who RUNS. You do not HAVE to tease a woman to show you are dominant and sexy. As long as your conversation shows that you are a WINNER and comfortable, relaxed, and LEADING the way.

For example, you could link something she is wearing to a fashion that you saw while traveling in an exotic part of the world to tactfully show that you are experienced with people and cultures and that talking to a new woman is no big deal to you.

It's an example of something COOL.
 

 

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And this is just ONE DIMENSION of how women project the illusion that they are FAR MORE APPEALING THAN THEY REALLY ARE. The other way women project this illusion is through SPECIFIC BEHAVIORS and through their attitudes and demeanor. I'm sure you've heard of the *Alpha Male* as being the dominant male. Well, in this society, what you tend to see are *Alpha FEMALES* lol and almost every chick acts like she IS an *ALPHA FEMALE*.

If you want to REALLY be “ALPHA”, start looking at how WOMEN behave. Women who are attractive, and often even *plain-janes*, act AS IF they are truly superior beings. That is why it is so easy for them to shoot men down, they have too many men kissing up to them all the time, it's beyond their ability to cope with all the clueless men.

In the situation you were in, it sounds as though you were given some definite interest signals. When you make eye contact and get a smile, you should move in immediately.

- Why? Why not wait until you get a 'convenient' break from the herd?

1) If you wait, you'll end up lowering her interest, because you won't look self-confident if you wait around skulking on the fringes. The Serengeti is full of tigers who will pounce on their prey. The longer you wait, the more she thinks *Wimp.*